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Lolly Salazar's avatar

I absolutely love this post and your beautiful love story!

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Lara Starr's avatar

I love everything about this love story ❤️

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Tracy's avatar

Beautiful, a beautiful love story entwined in books.

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Tricia Springstubb's avatar

My very first conversation with Paul--we'd met approximately one minute earlier--was about Camus's The Stranger. We have been married 51 years and counting.

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Alexis Ennis's avatar

Such a sweet story. I did not marry a reader, I married a gamer. We are opposites in many ways, which is why I think we work, but we both have need for that quiet time to escape. Sitting together and being in different worlds bonded us quickly. He has found audiobooks though and I even read one he recommended, which was a fun step for us. 🥰

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Donalyn Miller's avatar

Don and I love “sharing space” while we enjoy our separate pastimes! He’s a gamer, too, and I often nap or read when he plays.

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🍂Sa. Khan's avatar

Lucky you...

May that spark continue to flicker forever, a beacon guiding you both through life's joys and challenges, and a reminder of the transcendent power of your bond that appears to be nothing but l_o_v_e.

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Nidhi Chanani's avatar

As I enter divorce territory this post gives me hope and a lens to see future partners with... I love that you found each other! Beautiful 💗

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Donalyn Miller's avatar

I’m sorry to read that you’re getting divorced, but I can tell you that a better future is out there. Sending a hug and encouragement, Nidhi.

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Sue's avatar

Wonderful story ❤️

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Deb Pellerin's avatar

Beautiful essay! Love your quote and the live story. We met at a conference in MA one year and I will always remember the amazing book recommendations and more importantly, your kindness!

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🍂Sa. Khan's avatar

Ah...

I wonder if your life inspired Grant Snider...

Here: https://open.substack.com/pub/incidentalcomics/p/the-book-of-love?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android&r=rmf8m

🙃😊🙃😊

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